Tikoler goes viral with 5 things not to say during sex

When you are having sex with someone, do you have that person’s back? Not in a dirty way, but a supporting and encouraging way? Well, in Tiktok, people have posted the top five things people can say in bed to speak their partners through sex. But when @sirdoglord mentioned this trend in a video tiktok and said, “I thought I would contribute to mine,” what she listed she rolls everything in her back. Her post, which has already won over 1.6 million views and over 1680 comments, apparently the language on the page and offered the following five things that you may not really want to say in bed:

1. “Why are you breathing so much?”

This may be equal to say, “Are you getting away from the form” or “Can’t you keep up with me?” When there is no real concern about the well -being of the other person, this is not a very nice thing to say. On the other hand, this can be a legitimate question, as respiratory difficulties can be a sign of legitimate respiratory problems as an asthma attack or accidentally (or for the purpose of) absorbing a condom. It can be evidence of cardiovascular issues such as a heart attack as well. Otherwise, the person may simply not be prepared for the level of power you can expect.

Therefore, communication and coordination are important throughout sex. If you are not so familiar with each other, go slowly and be open where you want to go in order to find good mutual land. Do not jump straight into a harsh sexual position like “suspended scissors” until you are both ready. After all, didn’t they always be told not to run with scissors?

2. “Are you ready?”

Patience is a virtue in many arena, including sex. But if you have a train to catch, cookies to escape the oven or any other reason to rush, asking “are you almost done” or indicating that your watch may be encountered as insensitive. To avoid such situations, be sure to communicate all over, so that you have a better meaning than where each of you happens to be throughout the process. And don’t forget just because you don’t culminate and get together doesn’t mean you both can’t have fun.

3. Look at disgust

This was not a specific phrase but rather a look (see above), and it was not a look of love. Such images can be rapid instinctual reactions that are not easy to govern. Trying to crush it can make it look even worse, given that constipation look. How you treat this can depend on the nature of your connection. If this is a night’s attitude, then maybe the two are just a bad match. If on the other hand, you are both in a longer relationship as friends or more, it is best to communicate openly about what caused that reaction specifically. Otherwise, the other person may have noticed your appearance and wonder what prompted him.

4. “Is this normal amount of sweat. Have you talked to a doctor?”

Sweating is a normal part of sex and any powerful physical activity, namely the 1990 hit song “Gonna to sweat (all dance now)” by C+C music factory. Sweat, also known as sweating, is the natural way of the body of cooling, as the sweat glands located in the dermis layer of the skin secrete water containing salts, vitamins, minerals, proteins and amino acids that can help distribute heat when to evaporate. Someone who does not sweat at all during what should be very powerful sex can have anhydrosis, where sweat glands do not work properly, or just will not try so hard, especially if the person happens to iron a shirt in the same time

But excessive sweating can be a sign of a medical issue such as heart problems, low blood sugar, hyperthyroidism or infections such as influenza or tuberculosis. Some medicines such as antidepressants and beta blockers can also cause sweating. The culprit can also be stress and anxiety, which never happens before and during sex, right?

Then there is hyperhydrosis, which is when a person generally sweats more than what is considered normal. This can occur mainly in part of the body like armpits or in different parts of the body. A doctor can diagnose hyperhidrosis through a story, physical and two tests: a starch iodine test and a steam. Hyperhidrosis can be hereditary. It can also result from the aforementioned issues if they are chronic. Other possible causes are gout, alcoholism, spinal cord problems or menopause.

Since you probably do not bring a steam to your sexual encounters, it can be difficult to show what should be considered normal against excess sweat. Therefore, if you are really concerned about your partner, you can be open to your concerns as long as you encounter as true and not judgmental.

5. “Is this your first time?”

The answer to this question should be “yes” once with definition. If the other person happens to be new in the game and you have more experience about the basic paths to say, then consider talking to the other person through everything. Working together openly and honestly can help you both get hits.

This question becomes more a problem when the other person believes he himself is an experienced veteran and you are thinking “novice”. Such a question then may be similar to “you kind of suction” and not in a good way. Moreover, just because your partner is not doing what you need, does not mean that the person has no experience. That person can be used to do things in another way or has not done them within a while.

Again, such a question in the middle of sex is a sign of a breakdown of communication. Anyone who is new to the whole game must be advanced about it during pre-play warming. Otherwise, inexperienced will clearly show after the game time is. So it helps both of you encourage open sharing of your ancestry and perspectives.

If you are not enjoying the experience, tell the other person specifically what can do everything better. For example, you may say, “not there, but here instead” or encourage the right actions than to be critical of wrong actions as “no, not as a vacuum hoover”.

These five things listed by @sirdoglord are certainly not the only zingers that people could and will surely continue to say in bed. Commentators in posting Tiktok added other things like “we can make a break if you want”, “Do you always make that face” and “Is it?” All of this is a reminder that ultimately communication is a major part of good sex involves mental, emotional and verbal coordination along with physical coordination.